Wednesday, 21 December 2011

Time To Reflect: 2011


At the start of this year, I picked a few words to decide what would be my word of 2011. For some reason I found it difficult to pick only one. What was 2011 going to bring? What was the focus going to be? 

The idea for word of the year came from Christine Kane via Jo Parfitt. In her blog, Jo had written about how she had picked a word for 2011 and had been inspired by Christine Kane. My mum at Yarn Song & Yoga did the same. I liked the idea and decided to pick one (well, a few) too. 

The other day I thought about my words and I looked for my notebook where I wrote them in. When I found the page, I was surprised to see that not only had I written a few down, I’d actually highlighted one of them. That one must have jumped out at me at the time, yet I hadn’t remembered it. Strange, I thought.

So, the words I’d written down for 2011 were:

Faith
Vision
Discovery
Trust
Abundance
Prosperity
Adventure

The word I’d highlighted in yellow was Trust. Reflecting on the past year, I see how Trust, in the end, was the right word for me. 

This year I’ve had to trust my intuition, my decisions and my heart. I had to trust that giving up everything in Bristol to move back to The Netherlands was the right decision. 

I had to trust myself. Trust my ability, strength, and belief in myself. Along the way there have been moments where I’ve tested my Trust. I had to Trust my body, my feelings, and my inklings, especially when things didn’t seem right. Trust I didn’t have to settle for less. Trust I can have the best.

Finally, I found I had to Trust the loved ones affected by my choices would be OK. I wasn’t responsible for their feelings, however, I was as considerate and compassionate as I could be. They are on their own path and sometimes you have to let them go, and they have to let you go. Maybe one day you will meet again, but for now, the reason why you were in each other’s lives has ceased, and it’s time to move on, no matter how hard that is. I had to Trust it would all work out. So far I am pleased to see it really has.

Did you have a word for 2011? Or can you think of one now that summarises the year you’ve had? Let me know in the comments section, I’d love to find out.

Merry Christmas!

2 comments:

Merja said...

Thank you Carrie for this! Inspired by your post and the word of the year I also wrote about the same topic http://glowingbalance.com/reflecting-back-to-2011/

Carrie said...

You're most welcome! And I am pleased to hear you were inspired. I had a read of your post and I think it's great :-) Here's to a year where everything falls into place!